Sometimes you have to call it like you feel it.

I know a lot of people get uncomfortable with the  use of the word hell , but there are certain situations that it is absolutely okay to say you're going through Hell or have been, because the reality is some situations just are…..

PS: I don't believe  Hell is a bad word, other than I believe it's overused and people don't use the word in the right context or correctly, but with that said that word is not Freak Me out like it does the rest of the world.

You try telling the girl that just got cheated on, that everything's going to be fine and she's overreacting and she needs to just suck it up! When in reality that's probably her version of going through hell. 

You try telling the person that just got diagnosed with cancer, that everything's going to be fine and they're going to make it, so stop overreacting or being dramatic, when in reality they probably feel like they're going through hell in that moment.

You try telling that person that just got kicked out of the house that they're going to be fine and that they're overreacting, and they just need to not let it get to them.

You try telling the dad that just got laid off, that just lost their families house, their family car, their family dog and then they find out they're going to be on the street.

You try telling the person that's going through anxiety, and depression, that they're going to be fine, and they always make it through things, and just not let it get to them.

Nothing wrong with describing a situation as hell or using that word when the situation calls for that.